Wale Bad ft. Tiara Thomas

"I never made love, but I sure know how to Fu*k. Bad girls aint no good and the good girls aint no fun and the hood girls want a smart nigga, and college girls all want a thug." Wale and Tiara Thomas speaks the truth on bad. Why is it that we crave things that we know are not good for us, but then expect a change. Some one close to me use to be in an abusive relationship for over a year. My question is, What kept her with him for so long? Did she expect to change him? Or did she confuse the beatings as a sign of how much he cared? The more he hit her the more he loved her. Its amazing how we confuse the bad for good, but then run the good things away. Like the saying "Its to good to be true" ..  Are we really that hard on ourselves that we can't recognize the good, but quick to accept the bad?